Significant Nationwide
University Extension Links to Help Military Families
Talking to Children
About Terrorism and Armed Conflict
- The events of September 11, 2001 provided a sudden and
unsettling lesson on the impact of violent conflict on children for many parents and
teachers. Although the attacks appear to have been confined to a limited number of places
and lasted only a short time, people across the world felt and continue to feel threatened
and vulnerable. Because of the number of people killed or injured that day, a very large
number of people had direct connections with the death and destruction. Children were
aware of the tragedy, so parents needed to respond. Research supports some approaches that
are likely to be effective when talking with children about terrorism and armed conflict,
although this topic needs additional research.
Managing
the Stress of War and Terrorism: Guidelines for Families-13 Part Series
- Each section of this 13-part series from the University of
Florida Cooperative Extension Service is focused on specific preparedness issues and
suggestions for managing stress during times of war and international conflict.
Managing the Stress of War and
Terrorism: Guidelines for Families (PDF)
- War and terrorism are scary for children and families.
Children of all ages may overhear adult conversations or see acts of war or terror on the
news. These events are unsettling and stressful for children and their parents. This guide
from the University of Florida Cooperative Extension Service is aimed at helping families
cope and manage stress during times of war, terrorism, and international conflict.
Talking with Children During
Tough Times
- As adults we try to protect children against tragedies. We
would like to ensure that they have happy, innocent, and carefree lives. So what is a
parent, teacher, or other caring adult to do when disasters fill the airwaves and the
consciousness of society? This fact sheet provides a number of suggestions.
Effects of
Deployment Extend Beyond Military
- Discusses the stress placed on parent, child, family and
other relationships, even community services by military deployment. Provides suggestions
from Chuck Smith for tackling these emotional issues.
Strengthen
Relationships During Deployment, Separation
- Discusses the stress placed on spouses, partners and
extended family members during periods of military deployment and other separations.
Provides suggestions from Charlotte Shoup Olsen on tips for strengthening a relationship
during a separation.
The Military
Family Network
- The aim of the Military Family Network is to bridge the gap
between military and civilian life by providing a comprehensive network of resources and
information for military families and a way for them to connect with each other and the
specific resources in their communities that help empower them and increase their
well-being and success.
On
the Homefront
- Partnering with the Department of Defense, the USA Freedom
Corps is offering resources through this website to Americans who want to express their
support for members of the military, and help their families in meaningful ways.
Defend America
- From the U.S. Department of Defense comes this website
devoted to information on how Americans can support our troops serving in the military.
National Child Traumatic Stress
Network
- The National Child Traumatic Stress Network, comprised of 54
centers, is funded by the Center for Mental Health Services, Substance Abuse and Mental
Health Services Administration, US Department of Health and Human Services. This
Congressional initiative recognizes the profound, destructive, and widespread impact of
trauma on American children's lives. Its purpose is to improve the quality, effectiveness,
provision, and availability of therapeutic services delivered to all children and
adolescents experiencing traumatic events. Contains links to resources for families,
professionals, schools and the media. Includes a special section on terrorism and disaster
relief. Many resources available in Spanish.
Fostering Resilience in Response
to Terrorism
- The APA Task Force on Promoting Resilience in Response to
Terrorism has produced nine fact sheets intended to assist psychologists seeking to foster
resilience in a variety of populations, including adults, children, first responders,
mental health workers, military families, older adults, people of color, primary care
providers, and the seriously mentally ill.
Keeping in Touch- When Distance
Keeps You Apart
- Fact sheet with tips on how to stay in touch with relatives
and family members separated by distance.
National Military
Family Association
- A website devoted completely to the families of the seven
uniformed services through education, information and advocacy.
Navy Moms
Organization
- Navy Moms Organization was founded to offer support to the
families of Sailors serving in the United States Navy. Chat rooms and message boards are
available to give family members an opportunity to share with each other.
The Military
Family Network
- The aim of the Military Family Network is to bridge the gap
between military and civilian life by providing a comprehensive network of resources and
information for military families and a way for them to connect with each other and the
specific resources in their communities that help empower them and increase their
well-being and success.
A National Tragedy: Helping
Children Cope
- A fact sheet with tips for parents and other adults on how
to help children and adolescents deal with national tragedies.
Children and Grief
- The American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry has
shared this piece on children and how they experience grief so that parents and
professionals are able to help a child that is coping with death. Children experience the
loss of a loved one in a very different way than adults, and often times view the death as
reversible or they blame themselves.
America at War: Helping
Children Cope
- This special media article provides suggestions for parents
on talking with their children and helping them cope with the fears and uncertainties of
war.
Helping
Adolescents Cope with Grief
- This is a fact sheet on helping children through grief with
effective communication.
Roles and Responsibilities: Who
Does Them When You Are Gone?
- The stay-at-home partner assumes new roles and
responsibilities when the other partner is gone for a day, a week, a month, or longer. The
effect of the change on the family depends greatly upon the family's coping system. This
fact sheet discusses the personal resources or traits within individuals or family members
that can assist them in managing the daily stressors caused by separation.